Make the Peanut DressingIn a food processor or blender, combine the peanut butter, tamari or soy sauce, sesame oil, lime juice, grated garlic, pickled ginger, chopped pepper, hot sauce, and honey. Blend until smooth. Add water a tablespoon at a time until the dressing reaches a pourable consistency. Adjust spice level as needed.
Prepare the Crispy Wontons (if homemade)Heat oil in a skillet over medium heat. Slice wonton wrappers into thin strips. Fry until golden and crispy, about 1–2 minutes. Drain on paper towels and season with flaky salt or lime zest, if desired.
Assemble the SaladIn a large bowl, combine the cabbage, chicken, shredded carrots, chopped herbs, mango, and peanuts. Pour in half of the dressing and toss well to coat.
Finish and ServeTop with sesame seeds, chopped green onions, sliced avocado, and crispy wontons. Serve with remaining dressing and a squeeze of fresh lime juice.